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Renew the Imagination

8/27/2015

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Ministry Tip of the Week

by Seth Evangelho
A digitized world has its advantages, but the drawbacks are dangerous. The constant bombardment of images and slogans, ad campaigns, tweets, blog posts, video games and Facebook 'likes' threatens to dull (or even replace) our deeply human sense of wonder, reflection, and imaginative thought. Why research something when Google has already done the work for you, right?
Again, tapping into the universal consciousness we call Google has its advantages but, if we're going to avoid the dumbing down of our own personal consciousness, we had better be proactive; for the modern loss of the imaginative faculty is paralyzing our ability to exercise the gift of faith.
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In order to understand this a little better, let's be clear on what the imagination is. First of all, imagination is NOT reducible to our ability to pretend. To use your imagination does not primarily mean to fantasize or to make things up. The Imagination is a faculty of the human soul and a fundamental means by which God communicates to us the divine realities of faith. When we use this God-given, human faculty we bring to mind images of a reality that isn't immediately present to our senses. It's a faculty of memory, but also of hope and vision for the future. Most important of all maybe, the imagination is a power of the soul that allows us to perceive present realities hidden from physical sensation.
The Practice of the Presence of God
Brother Lawrence of the Resurrection wrote a timeless book based upon his spiritual habits of contemplative prayer: "The Practice of the Presence of God." Ultimately, he tells us that contemplative prayer takes practice and it's a question of continually recalling that we are in fact surrounded by the presence of Love Eternal. "As often as I could," says Brother Lawrence, "I placed myself as a worshipper before him, fixing my mind upon his holy presence, recalling it when I found it wandering from him. This proved to be an exercise frequently painful, yet I persisted through all difficulties." The imagination it turns out is a kind of spiritual muscle that, when exercised, creates in us a capacity to commune with the divine in our daily activities (Brother Lawrence was in charge of pots and pans in his monastery).
Without the imagination, faith can easily become a mundane list of facts and rote prayers. As "new evangelists" in the modern world, our job is to renew the imaginations of old and young alike. May this renewal begin first in our own souls; may the ease of modern technology be for us a tool  and not an addiction; may we struggle and persist through all difficulties to keep alive the presence of God and a living faith in all that we do; and may we teach others to do the same.
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"There is not in the world a kind of life more sweet and delightful, than that of a continual conversation with God; those only can comprehend it who practice and experience it" (Brother Lawrence).
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Follow the Leaders

8/21/2015

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Ministry Tip of the Week

by Seth Evangelho
"Be imitators of me, as I am of Christ." (1 Corinthians 11:1)

These words of St. Paul to the early Church capture a crucial insight into the Christian walk. We need examples. Real, living, and genuine examples of what it means to live a life of Catholic discipleship. 

Too often holiness gets distorted as a lofty ideal, or a pie-in-the-sky fantasy for everyday Joe's. A chasm of practical reality gets in the way of our life in Christ and we find ourselves up against a secular wall of responsibility, expectation, and... well (sadly), preference. 
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That's why a witness to the Saints is so critical. It is possible, and even preferable, to be a saint. Holiness is a happier life, it's both more human and - simultaneously - more divine, and we have thousands upon thousands of examples to prove it. How well do we know our brothers and sisters in Christ? How many of those thousands are we familiar with at all? The more we discover and reflect upon the lives of the saints, the more we ourselves begin to grow in our spiritual lives. What they did, what they said, how they lived and often how they died, become for us doorways of understanding and channels of grace.

First, we must bring the witness of the Saints into our own hearts, and then we must learn to tell their stories. There are saints for all occasions: teaching saints like Thomas Aquinas, Catherine of Siena, and John Bosco, political saints like Gregory and Leo, mothers like Monica and Elizabeth of Hungary, fathers like Louis IX, lawyers like Thomas More, doctors like Giles and Gianna, and the list goes on.

Have you heard about the heroic life of Gianna Molla? Or Chiara Luce Badano? Or Pier Georgio Frassati? How well, even, do we understand the more popular saints like Francis of Assisi or Ignatius of Loyola, Dominic or Teresa of Avila? These are stories that will change your life, by their examples but also through their intercession. Learn their stories. Pray for their intercession. Share their witness. Most important of all, be imitators of them as they are of Christ. 
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The Real Meaning of Apology

8/14/2015

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Ministry Tip of the Week

by Seth Evangelho

Defense. Apology means defense.

The most popular "apology," of course, is Socrates' brilliant defense of his innocence before the men of Athens. Brilliant as it was, however, he was still rejected. Socrates had to either recant or swallow the hemlock - and he chose the deafening silence. Nevertheless, his words were heard by those who had the ears to hear them, and they still ring true today.
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When it comes to the faith, we must learn to defend it - with passion. Yes, prepare to be rejected by some; but, learn to defend your faith well, and those who have ears to hear will be lead closer to Jesus Christ.

"Always be prepared to make a defense to any one who calls you to account for the hope that is in you, yet do it with gentleness and reverence." (1 Peter 3:15)

A few years ago, we designed an apologetics course at our parish to help equip ourselves to give a strong defense. It wasn't easy, that's for sure. These are tough questions. Many of the topics required significant study and/or reflection (alongside a sincere humility and heartfelt prayer). Here are some of the biggies:
How can we trust the Bible? What books are supposed to be in the Bible, and why?

Does science contradict the Bible? What about evolution?

If we have the Scriptures, why do we need the Church?

Why is the Tradition important?

Why do we need a pope? Is that in the Bible?

What do we mean by infallibility?

Aren't the Sacraments in the way of a pure faith in Jesus?

Don't Catholics think they can earn heaven?

How could Mary be conceived without sin? Where's the Church's teaching on Mary in the Bible?

Why do Catholics baptize babies?

Didn't Jesus do away with the priesthood? Why can't we confess our sins directly to God?

How can the Eucharist be more than a symbol? Is that in the Bible?

Why do we have to go to Church?

Isn't the mass just empty ritual?

Isn't the sign of the cross superstitious?

Why do Catholics have statues? Isn't that against the first commandment?

Why do Catholics pray to saints? The bible says Jesus is the One Mediator, how does the intercession of saints not get in the way of that?

Why do Catholics pray the Rosary? Isn't that vain repetition?

What's so wrong with contraception, sterilization, and in vitro fertilization?

Why can't priests be married?

Why can't women be priests?

How can the Church be so unbending toward homosexuality and same-sex marriage?

What's the truth about divorce? Aren't annulments just "Catholic divorce"?

Why do bad things happen to good people?
Odds are, you've encountered many of these questions. Maybe these questions have even shook your own faith. Maybe you're asking them right now. There are answers. That's what apologetics is all about. The beauty of truth is that it's reasonable. The beauty of Catholicism is that it teaches what's true. Apologetics seeks to understand not whether or not a given teaching is true, but how and why a given teaching is true.

As Catholics, this point is crucial. Something isn't true because the Church teaches it. It's true, and the Church teaches it. I hope that makes sense. That's the premise for defending our faith. There are answers. We discover them first for ourselves, and then we learn to share them with others. We never 'apologize' for the truth, we defend it.

A couple of my favorite websites (great articles on all the tough questions):

http://www.cuf.org/faith-facts/

http://www.catholic.com/quickquestions

A couple of my favorite books:

Handbook of Christian Apologetics

Reasons to Believe: How to Understand, Explain, and Defend the Catholic Faith

"Always be prepared to make a defense to any one who calls you to account for the hope that is in you, yet do it with gentleness and reverence." (1 Peter 3:15)
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The Papal Take on the Preferential Option

7/31/2015

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Ministry Tip of the Week

by Seth Evangelho
Recently, I received a wake-up call from the Holy Father. All quotations below are from paragraphs 186-201 of Pope Francis' apostolic exhortation, "The Joy of the Gospel."

I've added commentary at points but, for the most part, I just want to let him speak. First, we need to hear what he's saying, really hear it. Next, we need to live it out (that's the hard part). Then we can teach it with authenticity and in a way that will change hearts.

The Joy of the Gospel: Evangelii Gaudium

"I fear that these words...may give rise to commentary or discussion with no real practical effect. That being said, I trust in the openness and readiness of all Christians, and I ask you to seek, as a community, creative ways of accepting this renewed call."

What call is that?

"Each individual Christian and every community is called to be an instrument of God for the liberation and promotion of the poor, and for enabling them to be fully a part of society... If we, who are God's means of hearing the poor, turn deaf ears to this plea, we oppose the Father's will and his plan...A lack of solidarity toward his or her needs will directly affect our relationship with God... small daily acts of solidarity in meeting the real needs which we encounter."

What is solidarity?

"The word 'solidarity' is a little worn and at times poorly understood, but it refers to something more than a few sporadic acts of generosity. It presumes the creation of a new mindset which thinks in terms of community and the priority of the life of all... Changing structures without generating new convictions and attitudes will only ensure that those same structures will become, sooner or later, corrupt, oppressive and ineffectual."

The renewed call of solidarity with the poor begins then with a kind of mental and emotional conversion: the creation of a new mindset, new convictions, and new attitudes. (That makes sense since the teaching is as old as the Gospel) 

"This message is so clear and direct, so simple and eloquent, that no ecclesial interpretation has the right to relativize it...Why complicate something so simple?...Why cloud something so clear?"

In Matthew 25, Jesus is definitely clear: whatever you did (or did not do) for the least of these, you did it (or did not do it) to me.

"We may not always be able to reflect adequately the beauty of the Gospel, but there is one sign which we should never lack: the option for those who are least, those whom society discards... Sometimes we prove hard of heart and mind; we are forgetful, distracted and carried away by the limitless possibilities for consumption and distraction offered by contemporary society. This leads to a kind of alienation at every level, for 'a society becomes alienated when its forms of social organization, production and consumption make it more difficult to offer the gift of self and to establish solidarity between people.'" 
(quoting here St. John Paul II)

I am often self-absorbed and distracted by these limitless possibilities. But Pope Francis emphasizes next that my forgetfulness and distance from the poor is really a forgetfulness and distance from the Lord.

"The savior was born in a manger, in the midst of animals, like children of poor families; he was presented at the Temple along with two turtledoves, the offering made by those who could not afford a lamb... This divine preference has consequences for the faith life of all Christians, since we are called to have 'this mind...which was in Jesus Christ' (Philippians 2:5)."

And now for the real challenge.

"This is why I want a Church which is poor and for the poor. They have much to teach us. Not only do they share in the sensus fidei, but in their difficulties they know the suffering of Christ. We need to let ourselves be evangelized by them. The new evangelization is an invitation to acknowledge the saving power at work in their lives and to put them at the center of the Church's pilgrim way. We are called to find Christ in them, to lend our voice to their causes, but also to be their friends, to listen to them, to speak for them and to embrace the mysterious wisdom which God wishes to share with us through them." (You might want to read that again.)

Have you ever been evangelized by the poor? Many of us serve them, I think, but how many of us can truly call them our friends? How many whom society discards truly see ME as a friend? Not enough, that's for sure.

"This entails appreciating the poor in their goodness, in their experience of life, in their culture, and in their ways of living the faith. True love is always contemplative, and permits us to serve the other not out of necessity or vanity, but rather because he or she is beautiful above and beyond mere appearances."

I think, personally, I harbor many (hidden even from myself) prejudices which are often in the way and create obstacles in my ability to contemplate beyond the 'mere appearances' of people who live outside of what is familiar to me, especially (I have to admit) when they haven't showered in a while. And those prejudices, I think, are precisely what Pope Francis is calling me first to admit, and then to 'crucify' in the merciful love of Christ. Sometimes, in my lingering fear and discomfort, I'd love to say that I'm not called to that kind of 'ministry,' but the Holy Father isn't buying it. Like he said, "the message is so clear and direct."

"No one must say that they cannot be close to the poor because their own lifestyle demands more attention to other areas. This is an excuse commonly heard in academic, business or professional, and even ecclesial circles."

If I could summarize in a sentence what I've learned from this papal challenge, it would be this: The Preferential Option for the Poor is not merely a call to prioritize the poor when thinking about tithing, or economic structures, or other financial dimensions of life; rather, the Preferential Option calls us to prioritize Christ's poor in all things, to let their personalities permeate and change our lives, to opt for the poor not just with our finances but with our time and with our affection, in a word, with our sincere friendship. 
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The Liturgy of the Hours

7/23/2015

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Ministry Tip of the Week

by Seth Evangelho
If you're familiar with the life of a Hobbit, you'll notice a very strict eating schedule: First breakfast, Second breakfast, "Elevensies", Lunch, they never forget to take time out to receive this most basic form of nourishment. Apparently, they have fast metabolisms; but it's uncanny how similar the eating habits of a Hobbit are to the prayer rhythm of the Liturgy of the Hours. I don't know if Tolkien meant it to come across this way, but Hobbits eat like monks pray. It's a constant struggle, but my hope is to pray like Hobbits eat.
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Twelve years ago, a group of Franciscan Friars taught me how to pray the Liturgy of the Hours, and this “prayer of the Church” has been a powerful source of grace for me ever since. I work fulltime for a parish and wear countless hats; I’m married with three young children. Obviously, I don’t pray the Hours as ‘religiously’ as those Friars, but I do enter into this great and mysterious dialogue as often as I can.


You can learn more about the beauty of this prayer here:http://www.ewtn.com/library/curia/cdwgilh.htm


What I find most profound about the Hours is the intentional organization of Scripture that permeates the pages. Nearly every word is taken from the Scriptures, and the Church has carefully ordered the various daily readings and Psalms in such a way as to foster a rich and prayerful encounter with the Lord through praying his Word. Monks often chant in choir, but it can just as easily be prayed silently in a bedroom. Even when I’m alone, however, I know I’m truly united to the Church - which fills me with consolation and joy. I think that’s why I hold this prayer above all others (besides the Mass).
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If you’re curious but don’t know where to start, here’s a few helpful tips. First of all, pray the words, don’t just say them. It makes all the difference. Second, persevere through dryness. There are times when I feel God’s presence almost instantly as I begin to pray, and other times when the experience is arid and cold. Like all prayer, these dry times remind us that our Faith is based not on feelings but truth. So persevere in Faith and remember the profound reality. Third, get it on your Smartphone if you have one. iBreviary is a free app with an aesthetically pleasing presentation. It comes with you wherever you go, and any time is the right time to unite your prayer with the Church in the Liturgy of the Hours. 
Finally, start small. Get a copy of “Shorter Christian Prayer.” This is a nice, concise version (far less bulky) and perfect for people new to the prayer.

However we find ourselves praying the Hours, grace is at work. In my own life, the fruit of this universal devotion has been tremendous. The rhythm keeps me prayerful throughout the day. The Scriptural richness fosters deep meditation on the mystery and Person of Christ. Most powerful of all, I think, is what I rarely experience in a tangible way, namely the communion I enjoy with his Bride, the Church, as I pray it.
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The Ecclesial Method

7/17/2015

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Ministry Tip of the Week

by Seth Evangelho
There’s a rhythm present in the celebration of the liturgy, a psychological rhythm that, when applied to the work of making disciples in the classroom, unlocks a vision for catechesis in the New Evangelization. The following presentation of that structure is five-fold. Each stage brings the student deeper into contact with the mystery of Christ until finally he or she issent forth with a mission to spread the good news.

 Here’s the five-fold structure of the Ecclesial Method. 

1. The liturgy begins with the PREPARATION of the faithful. Usually the people assemble first, and then, in the context of a hymn, a procession of altar servers and other ministers leads the main celebrant – the priest – to a place at the head of the gathering, in the sanctuary. Finally, there’s a greeting and an opening prayer to remind us of our true dignity as sons and daughters of our Father in heaven. 

     In a classroom or youth group setting we often employ the use of an icebreaker—a short game or comical story. It serves to prepare the hearts and minds of students to be more perceptive. 

        To ‘break the ice’ at mass, we publicly confess our sins. In this communal act, the hearts and minds of parishioners are prepared, made more perceptive and attune. Our confession of faults helps us to settle in and get focused on who we are about to receive.

     Paying heed to this structure, the Ecclesial Method also begins with an intentional focus on gathering together. We don’t rush into our teaching, we greet one another. Often times, especially with youth, there’s music and an “icebreaker” of sorts. We make time.

     In a ministry/teaching setting - outside the sacred context of the actual liturgy of Word and Eucharist - this is the stage of pre-evangelization. We create a welcome environment and facilitate a time to build friendships.

     Ultimately, we want to facilitate joy.

2. Once we’ve gathered, the focus of the night is made known with an openingPROCLAMATION. This is the moment of evangelization proper. The specific teaching topic is laid out in relation to the mystery of Jesus.

     Proclamation mirrors the Liturgy of the Word. 

     At Mass we hear the Old Testament Scriptures read aloud and meditate upon them with a psalm. Then we hear the fulfillment of those Old Testament verses proclaimed in writing, most especially through the reading of the Gospel.

     In a classroom or youth group setting the “proclamation” is a loaded but specific phrase, a single sentence summary upon which the whole lesson or talk is based. It’s essential to craft a powerful yet easy-to-remember statement (especially in youth settings), and to let it resurface every few minutes throughout the talk as the hinge on which all points are made, the glue that unites our message and the word that stays with them when they leave (we hope). 

3. The proclamation is immediately followed by an EXPLANATION.

     Think: homily.

     This is the bulk of formal catechesis. After introducing the basic message and relating it to the mystery of Christ, we then elaborate upon it and give the message roots. Catechesis acts as a fertilizer to help Faith grow.

     Through an applicable and culturally relevant breakdown of the specific Gospel message, the mind is stimulated and stretched to enter more deeply into the “whys” of doctrine.

     (Mother Church never says “because I said so.”)

     There’s always an explanation. If we’re wise this explanation appeals to the heart and the mind, using real life analogies, cultural examples, personal experience/witness, and intimately connects with our relationship to Jesus in the liturgy.

     Focus on the love of God.

     If someone leaves our class or homily exclaiming: “Wow! I cannot believe how much God loves me!” then we have exceeded all of our aims. 

     And use Scripture.

     With direct appeals to biblical events and personages - actually read from the Bible - let the message flow from a deeply Scriptural worldview. Make it clear this is not a matter of opinion (teaching the Faith is never a matter of opinion, but of revelation and truth). 

4. Now we get personal. APPLICATION allows time to reflect upon the teachings just heard, and to engage the message more intimately through a personal response. 

We must let the truth touch our life.

How does what I just heard apply to my life? What is Jesus saying to me through what I just heard? How is He challenging me to grow in holiness? 

Here we enter into communion with the teaching. We allow it to penetrate our lives. We let Him in. We let Him teach us. We admit where we need to change. We converse with the Word.

5. Finally, we’re sent forth to spread the good news. The Word is made flesh in our hearts and we’re commissioned to dwell in the world as He did. The Mass is ended. “Go, announce the Gospel."

This is how catechesis must end, always a sending forth – in CELEBRATION, and with power. A saint once said: we enter into the walls of the church lambs for the offering, we leave conquering lions. Let this be the destiny of students who enter our classrooms as well.

That's the goal of the Ecclesial Method: 

Preparation - Proclamation - Explanation - Application - Celebration
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Three Birds, One Stone

7/9/2015

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Ministry Tip of the Week

by Seth Evangelho
Last week I briefly highlighted five general goals for ministry, stressing the need to be intentional with our time and recognize the different goals we seek to achieve through various things we do. This week I want to give a prime example:


Nothing is ever simply a fundraiser. 

Are fundraisers helpful? They certainly can be. Are we in this for the money? Definitely not. Is it enough that the money we raise will help fund important aspects of ministry? Yes... but we can still be intentional and make fundraisers far more fruitful.
A fundraiser can serve at least two of the five goals mentioned last week, especially when the people involved are intentional about it. In most cases, a fundraiser provides some sort of service, so focus on it. Be sure and use your fundraising opportunities to emphasize the generous service of those involved.   Point out the beauty of teamwork and the wonderful fruit that comes from the Body of Christ working together (this is also evangelization, by the way!). 
A second element present in (most) fundraisers is fellowship (also evangelization!). Be sure and foster the relationships between those helping out. Be intentional about building friendships as you go about completing your tasks. Maybe even celebrate together a job well done when it's all over.

A concrete example at our parish is the pancake breakfasts put on by the youth ministry over the past few years. We raise money to fund various activities, but our number one goal is the service we provide: the opportunity for our parish family to grow in community.
Fellowship is a primary concern, both for the parishioners who will enjoy our breakfasts as well as for the high school youth and adult volunteers who serve. In addition to the community building, these breakfasts also provide opportunities for our high school students (and our amazing kitchen crew) to serve. Service and fellowship are the primary goals, and we raise some funds as well. (Case in point: there are ways in which we could make more money at our breakfasts, but which would risk sacrificing our primary goals of service and fellowship. So we make less money.) Three birds, one stone.
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Be Intentional.

7/3/2015

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Ministry Tip of the Week

by Seth Evangelho
Why do we do what we do? What's our goal? As in all areas of life, clear understanding of purpose brings greater determination, confidence, and intentionality to the mission of ministry. Vague, willy-nilly ideas and plans are often missed opportunities.

If I can steal wisdom from our Protestant brothers and sisters for a moment... a "purpose-driven" ministry is a fruitful endeavor. I was reading "Purpose Driven Youth Ministry" by Doug Fields and I'd like to share with you a part of his very helpful vision for planning events in the context of Christian discipleship.

Everything serves a purpose, a specific purpose (or at least it should). An event or program may in fact serve multiple purposes, but what are they? The better we understand our goals, the better chance we have of reaching them. The "purpose-drive" vision highlights five essential goals for the Church's mission:
Purpose Driven Youth Ministry: 9 Essential Foundations for Healthy Growth (Youth Specialties)
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1. Evangelization: An intimate and living relationship with Jesus is the source and summit of all we do as Christians. The facilitation and cultivation of this relationship is our highest priority. This is achieved through various means, but sometimes basic evangelization (that is, explicit proclamation of the Gospel) is the specific goal for why we do something.

2. Catechesis: The more we come to know Jesus, the more we want to know him. If the relationship is truly alive, it's that of a lover and his beloved. The Holy Spirit stirs in us a longing that literally consumes us, a desire to know the Word more intimately each day and to align our lives to the truth of Christ and his call to discipleship.  It's important we provide (for ourselves and for others) opportunities to foster and feed this growing intellectual hunger. 

3. Fellowship: Human beings long to love and to be loved. It's our nature. Friendships fulfill this basic human need. Without opportunities to grow in communal bonds of friendship, we can quickly fall into a "me and Jesus" mentality; and that's not enough. Evangelization and Catechesis are meant to draw us closer together, but finding time to cultivate friendships isn't always easy in our busy culture. That's why it helps to be intentional about setting aside time to foster friendship and to bear the fruit of the communion we share in Christ.
4. Worship: This is really what it's all about. To pray without ceasing. To live for God. To live for others. To make our lives a gift, a living sacrifice of spiritual worship. And to receive God's love. We come together as his Body and Bride to be filled with the Spirit, united in his merciful embrace, nourished by the Bread of angels and, then, to offer our lives back in thanksgiving for it all. Hopefully this is starting to happen mystically (and intentionally) in all that we do, but we always keep the liturgy central to the Christian life; for it's the wellspring of divine life.

5. Service: To receive God's love is to be sent. The mission of Jesus is alive in his disciples. We take Jesus at his word when he says "Whatever you do to the least of my brethren, you do it to me." As a parish community, as Church, we bear far more fruit than we ever could on our own as individuals. Everyone has specific gifts, and together they carry out the mission. We must always be looking for ways to serve the poor among us, to build up our brothers and sisters, and to grow our community.

I find it helpful to see these five goals laid out. They seem obvious enough, but are we achieving them? Could we be more effective in any of these areas? Live with purpose. Be intentional.
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To Receive is to Give

6/25/2015

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Ministry Tip of the Week

by Seth Evangelho
The Theology of the Body has been such a gift to the Church (If you're not familiar with it, find a good introduction, you won't regret it). This masterwork of St. John Paul II has given us a beautiful language to articulate what it means to be human. As knowledge of his teaching spreads, I hear more and more this language of gift; that is, JPII's ever constant proposition that we've been created to make of ourselves a complete gift to the world. 

Indeed, God is love and it's in his image that we've been fashioned. He is eternally pouring himself out in love and, with his strength, we're called to do the same, to live his eternal life here and now - and so to discover the fulfillment of our deepest human longings. We're called to make of our lives a gift. Whether it be in the sacred bonds of marriage to spouse and children, in the sacrificial ministry of holy orders or religious life, in the passionate throes of an apostolate (a particular mission we've discerned God calling us to focus on), or in the day to day encounters with the people who cross our path; in the end, all authentic vocations point to the same human fulfillment, in whichever way the gift of self may be expressed.
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Let us never forget, however, the image of love is twofold. God is not a solitary being. He is not just the eternal giver. From all eternity, the Father, Son, and Holy Spirit eternally receive. Love is not just giving; it is receiving. As we call one another to love, and to serve, let us also remember that we're called to let others minister to us as well. 
Sometimes it's easy to hide behind service and never fully attain the image of God we're called to become. It's hard to be vulnerable, and inter-dependent; for fear of appearing weak, we don't want to admit our need for others. May we never forget that love eternally receives every bit as much as he eternally gives.

Paradoxically, the more perfectly we come to receive the love and mercy of others, the more perfectly our giving becomes. It requires the gift of self to receive someone's love, to allow oneself to be served by another, to be forgiven, or comforted, or challenged. Our willingness to receive the love of another is a vulnerable position, and is itself a gift. To receive love is to give love. It's a precious gift to allow someone else to give their gift of self. Indeed, we need one another's willingness to receive if we're to grow in our capacity to give. May we be humble enough to admit our need for the love and mercy of others, and may we help others (most especially through our own living example) to understand that this call to receive is just as essential to human happiness as the call to give.
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Connect People

6/19/2015

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In its simplest definition, a priest mediates, he connects people... to God and to one another. Israel was God's "chosen race," a people set apart with a special mission to mediate God's covenant to the nations. Although they failed, the entire nation of Israel was called to be God's "priests."

Jesus fulfills the mission perfectly and becomes "the one mediator between God and man" (1 Timothy 2:5). He extends the peace and freedom of God's kingdom to all the world, and he does it through his Church. In communion with Christ, we've been taken up into his mission. As our first Pope tells us, through baptism we'rethe New Israel, the fulfillment of Jesus' redemptive work. "Come to him, to that living stone, rejected by men but in God's sight chosen and precious; and like living stones be yourselves built into a spiritual house, to be a holy priesthood, to offer spiritual sacrifices acceptable to God through Jesus Christ...you are a chosen race, a royal priesthood, a holy nation, God's own people, that you may declare the wonderful deeds of him who called you out of darkness into his marvelous light" (1 Peter 2:4-9). 

We are called to mediate God's covenant to the "nations" (i.e. our friends, family, neighbors, and co-workers). It of course means evangelization (helping people to encounter the Person of Jesus), but I want to focus on something more basic right now, the soil for fruitful evangelizing efforts.The covenant we mediate is the family of God.   it also means that we're community builders. Part of our priestly role is to connect people, to help foster friendships and to grow community. The full beauty of Christ is seen when we encounter his Body, thefamily of God. This happens through fostering friendships and cultivating opportunities for people to get to know one another. 

When I think about it, I have a number of friends who've never met. Many of them would probably enjoy one another's company very much; and it could be a tremendous boost to their faith as well. My job, then, is to try and create opportunities for them to get to know each other. I stand as a mediator between them, as the "priest" God has "ordained" to help connect these specific members in the Body of Christ. 

Obviously not all of our friends will necessarily hit it off, but many of them might. Share the love, pray for new friendships, and watch what God can do in your community. 
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